Make Your Crib Your Crib

Long term projects are good distracters from the “woe is me” state of mind. Starting a room-by-room remodel is one of the most rewarding things you can do to make your crib your crib. Face it, when you were married, the way the house was laid out was probably a compromise. Now that you’re single, you don’t have to settle. Your crib should reflect your taste.

Don’t jump in without planning and forethought. Begin by watching a few decorating shows on TV. They always have great suggestions for getting the biggest bang for your buck. You might also buy a few mags or solicit the help of friends who have well laid out pads. Once you have determined a theme or style you want to try out, make a few sketches to build your confidence.

Don't go buck wild by buying a bunch of new furniture. Thrift stores and consignment shops are excellent sources for gently used furniture pieces. If you don't see what you want at first, be patient. Those coveted furniture pieces are bound to make an appearance in a second hand store sooner or later. You might want to befriend the owner or sales person and let them know what you're looking for. They can alert you whenever something comes in that might fit your remodeling project. Garage sales or moving sales are resourceful, too, but you've got to be ready to pounce when you see what you like.

You can finance your project by selling or consigning your old furniture (if it's in good shape). Or your very own garage sale can generate lots of extra cash.

I suggest focusing on one room at a time, starting with the master bedroom. The overall project will go on for a few years, but keep plugging away at it until you’ve rejuvenated as many rooms as you like.